The Birth House

I was surprised to find The Birth House by Ami McKay at my local library. I wasn't exactly looking for it, but upon finding a novel based on birth, I figured it would allocate a break from the usual brainy list of books that I forever have my nose in. Impossible to escape into a land of fantasy, due to the need to constantly take notes and highlight facts, these books leave little to the imagination. The Birth House offered an opportunity for me to delve into something deeper. A past, a connection to being a woman, and the journey that so many women before me took, so that we could freely chose today.

Surprisingly, events that this book are based off of took place nearly 90 years ago. I couldn't help but wonder how these customs affected my great-grandmothers, or their mothers, and so on, and in turn, subconsciously but directly affect women today. It is hard to reflect on a time when women had no choice about whom or when they would marry, how many children they would have and where they would birth those children.

We live in a time where lack of choice is not even fathomable, more so it is the over-pouring of options that I believe gets us into trouble. How can we even make a slight connection to what holds true in our heart, when we hardly take a moment to become fully aware of it with all of the distractions in our day to day existence? Our capabilities, true desires, where we have travelled from and where we long to go.These seeds of wisdom are buried beneath the snow, and the ever changing seasons of our busy lives.

I am sending my deepest gratitude to all of the women who have walked before me, will walk after me, and who are walking side by side. I look forward to honoring them all by learning and sharing their rituals, stories and wisdom!

I would highly recommend this book, even for someone who is not interested in birth. It is eloquent, and well written. I love that it offered a brief history of a time period that really changed birth in our culture. From home to hospital. Although I was upset when I finished it,(because I had nothing else to read while on vacation) I was pleasantly surprised by a list of further reading recommendations.